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Kemi Oguntoye BA (Hons)


Counselling & Psychotherapy

Counselling & Psychotherapy

Counselling & Psychotherapy

You Deserve to Feel Great. I’m Here to Help.

I am an experienced Integrative-Relational Trauma Counsellor & Sexologist supporting individual clients  through their experiences of Trauma, Childhood sexual abuse, Anxiety and Sexual issues. 

Anxiety is the most reason people undertake counselling, it can be social anxiety, health anxiety, obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD) or panic disorder. You are not alone in your journey.

UK research shows that as many as 1 in 4 women and 1 in 6 men have experience some form of sexual abuse before the age of 18. Yet all childhood abuse is not sexual it could be having a parent who could not regulate their emotions, being told you couldn’t or shouldn’t experience certain emotions, having a parent denying your reality so not being seen or heard.

Some of the above trauma can result in anxiety or depression, dysfunctional relationship patterns or a betrayal of self for love or acceptance.

Whenever you’re ready, I am here to support you in exploring your current struggles in a safe, restorative, non-judgmental and collaborative environment.

I offer Online, Telephone and Face to Face sessions.

My Approach & Philosophy

Integrative- Relational Counselling and Psychotherapy is a holistic and relational way of drawing together Humanistic, Psychodynamic, CBT, Gestalt and Existential models of therapy to provide a unique and supportive way of working with you.

Whilst Counselling and Psychotherapy is a talking therapy, CSA and trauma can be complex and deeply difficult to explore. My holistic approach is long term and incorporates Psychoeducation (understanding CSA and trauma, your reactions and your process of healing), Body Psychotherapy (your bodies unique reaction to trauma, feelings, sensations and impulses) and Creative Exploration (using creativity to express, explore and support emotions).

My Training, Qualifications & Experience

I have over 8 years experience working theraputically with ex-offenders, fostered children, carers and private clients within organisations, agencies and charities including Business Launchpad, London Borough of Croydon Social Care & Families Support, Carers Support Merton and OneInFour. My experience covers areas of abuse, trauma, PTSD, anxiety, depression, self-harm, addiction and loss.


* BA (Hons) Integrative-Relational Counselling
Middlesex University London

* Professional (Post Grad) Certificate in Psychosexual Therapy
Contemporary Institute of Clinical Sexology London

* EMDR Therapy
EMDR Institute Inc South Africa

* Certificate in Counselling Skills
Croydon College London

Certificate in Online & Telephone Counselling
Counselling Tutor Academy London

Further training:

* Working Creatively with Shame

* Working with Sexual Violence and Abuse
Contemporary Institue of Clinical Sexology

* Understanding Kink
Contemporary Institue of Clinical Sexology

* Working Therapeutically with Gender and Sexual Diversities
Psychpsynthesis Trust

* Sibling Sexual Abuse

Professional Memberships:

* British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP)
– Registered Member

* The National Counselling Society (NCS)
– Accredited Member

* The Black, African and Asian Therapy Network (BAATN)
– Registered Member


Areas of counselling Offered:

– Abuse
– Anxiety
– Attachment disorder
– Childhood Sexual Abuse
– Depression
– Dissociation
– Emotional abuse
– Generalised anxiety disorder
– Panic attacks
– Physical abuse
– Post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD)
– Self-harm
– Sex therapy
– Sexual abuse
– Sexuality
– Stress
– Trauma

Alongside my private practice I offer my counselling services voluntarily to an organisation supporting survivors of childhood sexual abuse.